Headache: When to Worry — ER vs Doctor vs Home Care
Learn when headaches require emergency care, doctor visits, or home treatment. Red flag symptoms, cost estimates, and effective management strategies.
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🚨 Call 911 Immediately If You Have:
- Sudden, severe headache (worst of your life)
- Headache with fever and neck stiffness
- Headache after head injury or trauma
- Headache with vision changes, confusion, or difficulty speaking
These may indicate serious conditions like stroke, meningitis, or brain aneurysm.
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Emergency Red Flags — Go to ER Now
Thunderclap Headaches
- • Sudden onset, reaches peak in 60 seconds
- • "Worst headache of my life"
- • Feels like being struck by lightning
- • May indicate brain aneurysm
Neurological Symptoms
- • Vision changes or loss
- • Difficulty speaking or slurred speech
- • Weakness or numbness in face/arms
- • Confusion or altered mental state
Infection Signs
- • Headache with high fever (over 101°F)
- • Neck stiffness or pain
- • Sensitivity to light (photophobia)
- • Skin rash with headache
Post-Trauma
- • Headache after head injury
- • Worsening headache hours after trauma
- • Vomiting after head injury
- • Loss of consciousness
Time is critical: These symptoms may indicate stroke, brain aneurysm, meningitis, or brain bleed requiring immediate treatment.
When to See a Doctor (Same Day or Soon)
Pattern Changes
- • New headache pattern after age 50
- • Headaches becoming more frequent
- • Headaches getting progressively worse
- • Different location or quality than usual
Functional Impact
- • Headaches interfering with work/school
- • Frequent headaches (more than 2 per week)
- • Headaches not responding to OTC meds
- • Needing increasing amounts of medication
Associated Symptoms
- • Persistent nausea or vomiting
- • Dizziness or balance problems
- • Memory or concentration issues
- • Headache with jaw pain when chewing
Concerning Features
- • Headache with low-grade fever
- • Headache worsens when lying down
- • Headache worsens with coughing/straining
- • Headache in pregnancy
What to Expect at Doctor Visit
Assessment
- • Detailed headache history
- • Neurological examination
- • Blood pressure check
- • Eye examination if needed
Possible Tests
- • Blood tests (if fever/infection suspected)
- • CT or MRI (if red flags present)
- • Eye pressure test
- • Referral to neurologist if needed
Best Place to Go — Quick Comparison
Care Setting | When to Choose | Tests You'll Get | Typical Cost |
---|---|---|---|
Emergency Room | Thunderclap headache, fever + neck stiffness, neurological symptoms, or after head injury. | Neurological exam, CT/MRI scan, blood tests, lumbar puncture if needed. | $1,000–$3,000+ Advanced imaging available |
Doctor (Same Day/Soon) | New pattern, frequent headaches, worsening symptoms, or affecting daily life. | Detailed history, neurological exam, may order outpatient imaging or refer to specialist. | $100–$250 Ongoing management |
Home Care | Tension headaches, familiar migraines responding to usual treatment, no red flags. | Self-monitoring, symptom diary, OTC medications, lifestyle modifications. | $5–$20 OTC medications |
Cost Disclaimer: Estimates are before insurance and vary by location, tests needed, and specific treatments.
Sources: Cost estimates based on CMS Provider Data, KFF Healthcare Cost Analysis, and national healthcare pricing databases.
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When Home Care Is Appropriate
Tension Headaches
Characteristics:
- • Mild to moderate intensity
- • Feels like tight band around head
- • Both sides of head
- • No nausea or light sensitivity
Mild Migraines
Can manage at home if:
- • Familiar migraine pattern
- • Responds to usual treatments
- • No new concerning symptoms
- • Not interfering with daily activities
Effective Home Treatments
Immediate Relief
- • Rest in dark, quiet room
- • Apply cold or warm compress
- • Stay hydrated
- • Gentle neck/scalp massage
Medications
- • Ibuprofen (400-600mg)
- • Acetaminophen (500-1000mg)
- • Naproxen (220-440mg)
- • Follow package instructions
Prevention
- • Regular sleep schedule
- • Stay hydrated
- • Manage stress
- • Avoid known triggers
When to Follow Up or Seek Care
Return to Doctor If:
- • Headaches not improving with treatment
- • Headaches becoming more frequent or severe
- • New symptoms developing
- • Medication not working as well as before
- • Headaches affecting work or relationships
- • Using pain medication more than 2-3 days per week
- • Waking up with headaches regularly
- • Headaches with personality changes